Are you burning out?
Caregivers are famous for answering “I’m fine” while running on empty. This private self-check gives you an honest read on your own strain — the part of caregiving everyone tells you to watch and no one makes time for. Answer for how things have actually been lately. Nothing is saved or sent.
Answer honestly — there’s no score to pass or fail, and nothing is saved or sent. A reflection appears here as you go.
This is an educational reflection, not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. If you’re struggling, please talk to your own doctor or a mental-health professional — caring for the caregiver is part of caring for your loved one.
What the research says — and why your strain matters
- The questions above mirror the domains of the Modified Caregiver Strain Index (Thornton & Travis, Journal of Gerontology, 2003), a validated 13-item screen (internal reliability α = 0.90) covering physical, financial, social, psychological, and personal strain — where a score of 7 or more signals a high level of stress.
- Strain isn’t just unpleasant — it’s a health risk. The Caregiver Health Effects Study found older caregivers reporting strain had a 63% higher risk of death over four years than non-caregivers (Schulz & Beach, JAMA, 1999).
- You’re far from alone. The Family Caregiver Alliance reports that an estimated 40–70% of family caregivers have clinically significant symptoms of depression — and roughly 40% of dementia caregivers do.
Where to get support
The single most skipped support is respite — planned breaks where someone else takes over. It is not a luxury; it’s maintenance. Start here:
- ARCH National Respite Locator — find respite-care services near you.
- Eldercare Locator (Administration for Community Living) — your local Area Agency on Aging, adult day programs, and caregiver-support programs by ZIP code.
- Alzheimer’s Association 24/7 Helpline — free, around the clock, at 800-272-3900.
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — call or text 988 any time you feel you can’t go on.
For more, read our guide on caregiver burnout and the mental load, our guide on caring for a parent with dementia, along with the “is it time for memory care?” self-check and the care cost comparison if a change in care is on your mind.
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