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Are you burning out?

Caregivers are famous for answering “I’m fine” while running on empty. This private self-check gives you an honest read on your own strain — the part of caregiving everyone tells you to watch and no one makes time for. Answer for how things have actually been lately. Nothing is saved or sent.

Caregiving is physically hard on me — the lifting, the broken sleep, the lack of rest.
My own sleep is regularly disrupted because of caregiving.
I feel like I’m always on call, with little time that’s truly my own.
Caregiving has strained my finances or my work.
I’ve pulled back from friends, hobbies, or things that used to restore me.
I feel emotionally drained — like I have little left to give.
I’ve let my own health slide — checkups, exercise, my own medications.
What I have to manage feels like more than one person can handle.
I feel resentful, guilty, or like I’m failing — sometimes all at once.
Caregiving has created tension in my close relationships.
I’ve been more tearful, anxious, or short-tempered than usual.
I can’t see how this is sustainable for me much longer.

Answer honestly — there’s no score to pass or fail, and nothing is saved or sent. A reflection appears here as you go.

This is an educational reflection, not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. If you’re struggling, please talk to your own doctor or a mental-health professional — caring for the caregiver is part of caring for your loved one.

What the research says — and why your strain matters

Where to get support

The single most skipped support is respite — planned breaks where someone else takes over. It is not a luxury; it’s maintenance. Start here:

For more, read our guide on caregiver burnout and the mental load, our guide on caring for a parent with dementia, along with the “is it time for memory care?” self-check and the care cost comparison if a change in care is on your mind.

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